This week...oh, this week. No matter how I try, I don't think I'll ever forget it.
Monday, March 14
Today was another lovely day, albeit overcast. The girls headed outside almost as soon as we got home; half the time, Elaina asks if she can go outside before we even pull into the driveway. As they played, I made dinner, and Josh got to work tidying up some of the overgrowth on the edges of our yard. We're hopeful that this will discourage both the rabbit population and the powdery mildew that have scourged our garden the past two years.
Tuesday, March 15
This was supposed to be today's picture. For the first time ever, I voted in our state's primary. The weather was so nice, we walked to my polling center, and the girls came inside and got to be part of the process (and get the free stickers!). It was a fun adventure, and, I thought, the only one we would have for the night.
All of that changed around 6:45. I had sent the girls to their room a few minutes earlier to get ready for their bath, well aware that they would likely monkey around for a few minutes before actually getting undressed. When I came in, Elaina was heading to the tub. Ellie was holding on to the ladder on the inside of the bunkbed, and I told her to get down. I'm not sure exactly what happened next, though the best I can tell is that she misjudged the distance from the ladder to the mattress. She slipped and smacked face-first into one of the rungs of the ladder. When I picked her up, the blood told the story of the rest of our night.
The next few hours were a blurry nightmare, a horrifying experience for our little girl and for us, which I don't have the heart to detail here. Living it once was more than enough.
We got home around midnight. Ellie lost three teeth. Josh and I lost a piece of our hearts. It was a night I wanted to wish away, and it is one I doubt I'll ever forget.
Wednesday, March 16
The night was short, and morning came in a fog of emotional exhaustion and trepidation, as we waited for Ellie to wake up. She woke up a bit disoriented and quiet, content to sip water and watch cartoons with her sister. When Elaina was off to school, Josh ran to Kroger to get Ellie's medicine and a bevy of soft foods for her to eat. He dropped off the groceries and headed into work, and Ellie relaxed while I attempted to work.
We took her to the dentist around 10:00 as a follow-up to her ER visit, and they were absolutely amazing. She was never afraid, never in pain, always reassured that everything was going to be okay. We got the good news that she had not damaged her adult teeth, and the surprising news that, because this is apparently a not uncommon childhood injury, the equivalent of dentures for baby teeth are available, meaning eventually Ellie will be able to eat corn on the cob and apples in a matter of a month or so.
She was amazing during the visit, too. She charmed the entire office, as though the trauma of the night before had never happened. Josh and I were overwhelmed by her strength and at one point were both fighting tears--tears of exhaustion, of emotional fragility, tears of unspeakable pride in this little girl who never once complained, never once felt sorry for herself, never once stopped smiling, even when she knew her smile was changed forever.
When we got home, Ellie had her lunch--a nice cold yogurt and chocolate ice cream--and then insisted I cuddle on the couch with her and watch a baking show. I was more than happy to meet her demands. Josh came home early, and when Elaina got home from school, we spent the day as a family, healing bit by bit.
Thursday, March 17
In an attempt to get back to normal, Ellie went back to Rita's today, and I went to work. As planned, the three of us donned our best green for St. Patrick's Day, and the only non-participating member of the family took our picture.
Elaina also came home with a pretty awesome Kindergarten art project.
Friday, March 18
Today Elaina's school hosted a Family Fun Night. There were games with lots of simple prizes, food, and a book fair. A good time was had by all.
| Sky on fire on the way home |
Saturday, March 19
Today we had a low-key day, still recovering from the week. We ran a few errands and put a movie on for the girls in the afternoon. Afterwards, Ellie decided to color inside while Elaina decided to color our back porch. Josh called my attention to a few new blooms in our yard, too--a welcome harbinger of spring.
Sunday, March 20
This afternoon we had the pleasure of attending a "Concert in the Stacks" at the library--a performance by Truckley Howl, a 3 piece traditional Irish group. It was fabulous. Elaina started dancing while the fiddler tuned his instrument, and I don't think she sat for more than 10 seconds at a time after that.
Towards the end of the concert, we got to participate in a group dance as well. So much fun!














































